Why are you afraid?

Imitation = Fear Imitation is an expression of fear, because we imitate to blend in, to be accepted by society, and for others to notice that we fit in and that we belong. We imitate because we’re afraid of being rejected should we ever reveal our truest selves. Many of us, predominately in the West […]

Privilege.

Work hard. Just remember, when you reach a certain level of success you become a threat to those who never took you seriously before. Probably because of the colour of your skin, or your gender, or perhaps a disability or orientation. Whatever is used to make you feel marginalized and dehumanized, keep working hard. Because when […]

I Try To Walk Away But I Stumble

*Guest Post* Sometimes, through no fault of our own, we all end up in situations that aren’t good for us. We’re in unhealthy relationships, living with our parents again or stuck in dead-end jobs that, even though we want to, we just can’t seem to find the motivation to leave. Stop And Think When the […]

The Personal Development Cycle

Learn all about The Personal Development Cycle, on my new blog here: vancitylifecoach.com/blog “If 2016 has taught us anything, it’s that we can no longer sit and wait for positive change to come knocking on our doors, we actually have to invest the effort and energy to drive our lives forward, in the direction we […]