Why are you afraid?

Imitation = Fear Imitation is an expression of fear, because we imitate to blend in, to be accepted by society, and for others to notice that we fit in and that we belong. We imitate because we’re afraid of being rejected should we ever reveal our truest selves. Many of us, predominately in the West […]

Privilege.

Work hard. Just remember, when you reach a certain level of success you become a threat to those who never took you seriously before. Probably because of the colour of your skin, or your gender, or perhaps a disability or orientation. Whatever is used to make you feel marginalized and dehumanized, keep working hard. Because when […]

The Personal Development Cycle

Learn all about The Personal Development Cycle, on my new blog here: vancitylifecoach.com/blog “If 2016 has taught us anything, it’s that we can no longer sit and wait for positive change to come knocking on our doors, we actually have to invest the effort and energy to drive our lives forward, in the direction we […]

How to Cope With Isolation

You may notice that I tend to disappear for a while and I hope that the message in this post will help you understand why. I grew up feeling segregated because I didn’t feel connected to the world the same way my peers did. I remember my insecurities developing because of an eagerness to fit […]

How to Make Decisions

Post by, Vancouver Life Coach Life is full of choices, and it’s the choices we make that shape our lives. Therefore the question remains, how do we make the right choices? I’ve been asked this question over and over again. At first, I couldn’t give anyone a definitive answer because mindful-decision-making stems from the root […]

Reform Your Relationship with Opportunity

post by, VanCityLifeCoach.com Happy New Year, folks! 2016 is officially here and before you run out and sign up for those gym memberships, before you start your detox and worry about the debt you’ve accumulated over the holidays, let’s talk about you for a moment. The world is moving toward a new paradigm and the traditional way of living […]

How to be Happy

post written by, VanCityLifeCoach.com Every single person is on the same page when it comes to life. The details of our individual lives probably differ drastically, but the emotional experiences in which we wish to encounter, they’re exactly the same. I’m happy. Perhaps not all the time, but nowadays I can say with confidence that […]