If you don’t want to give up, don’t.

  Working to accomplish any goal is challenging, and often enough, it’s the mental challenges which cause us to buckle under pressure We tend to set goals out of excitement, in high energy and with the focus of who we can be and what we can uncover when we achieve them. Although, it is naive […]

Why are you afraid?

Imitation = Fear Imitation is an expression of fear, because we imitate to blend in, to be accepted by society, and for others to notice that we fit in and that we belong. We imitate because we’re afraid of being rejected should we ever reveal our truest selves. Many of us, predominately in the West […]

Privilege.

Work hard. Just remember, when you reach a certain level of success you become a threat to those who never took you seriously before. Probably because of the colour of your skin, or your gender, or perhaps a disability or orientation. Whatever is used to make you feel marginalized and dehumanized, keep working hard. Because when […]

The Personal Development Cycle

Learn all about The Personal Development Cycle, on my new blog here: vancitylifecoach.com/blog “If 2016 has taught us anything, it’s that we can no longer sit and wait for positive change to come knocking on our doors, we actually have to invest the effort and energy to drive our lives forward, in the direction we […]

How to Cope With Isolation

You may notice that I tend to disappear for a while and I hope that the message in this post will help you understand why. I grew up feeling segregated because I didn’t feel connected to the world the same way my peers did. I remember my insecurities developing because of an eagerness to fit […]