Reform Your Relationship with Opportunity

post by, VanCityLifeCoach.com Happy New Year, folks! 2016 is officially here and before you run out and sign up for those gym memberships, before you start your detox and worry about the debt you’ve accumulated over the holidays, let’s talk about you for a moment. The world is moving toward a new paradigm and the traditional way of living […]

Relationship Advice

Don’t lose sight of self. Don’t lose sight of her/him. If you get lost, work to navigate yourself back to the moment and realisation, to which you felt safe enough and secure enough, to be vulnerable and open with the person you gave your all to. The world is full of many people who don’t understand […]

What We All Want.

Today, I led a discussion and met with people living very different lives, about life and relationships. Although there were so many differences, we stripped back experiences until we hit raw, genuine, emotion. Some cried, some got angry, but we all laughed, and as we explored everyone’s identities, we discovered what we all truly wanted from […]

Understanding Detachment and the Meaning behind This ‘Spiritual’ Philosophy

Post by VanCityLifeCoach.com “Attachment is the root of suffering.” – The Buddha I’ve been reading a lot about detachment, or non-attachment if you rather and like most, I’ve always believed the philosophy of detachment simply meant not letting material possessions have rule over your life. Which I guess is true, but teachings suggest that detachment […]

Are Your Motivations Man-made?

Have you ever wondered how much of your life is man-made? Ever considered how much of your life is driven by man-made philosophies that guide your choices, mould your identity and overrun your emotions and natural desires? Take the institution of marriage for example, it’s not necessarily an innate desire, we’re taught to long for […]

Why the Path to Success Can Be Lonely

Working towards your own aspirations in life can be very lonely. Despite having my family and friends around me, I sometimes can’t help but feel like I’m living life all by myself, because I’m working towards my own aspirations that others don’t understand or connect with. At first I couldn’t understand why, because even when […]