Introducing Integration

Click here for the full post: “In my work, I define the service of integration as helping people integrate an awareness of two or more ‘systems’, for lack of a better term, into one. These systems can be likened to an individual connecting with different truths; ideas; beliefs; ideologies that cause an unsettling. Being aware […]

Trying to Understand Depression

“Our life experiences should invigorate our identities. We should be constantly learning new things and expanding our zones of comfort to learn more about ourselves, and what we were put on this planet to do. This is how we strengthen our minds against negativity. Most of us know when we’re in a situation or environment […]

The Personal Development Cycle

Learn all about The Personal Development Cycle, on my new blog here: vancitylifecoach.com/blog “If 2016 has taught us anything, it’s that we can no longer sit and wait for positive change to come knocking on our doors, we actually have to invest the effort and energy to drive our lives forward, in the direction we […]

Why Do People Breakup?

Relationships are the assembly of individual identities. They’re about support, equality, balance and most importantly, acceptance.  Preserving these types of values keep relationships alive, and help us rise above a lot of relationship challenges. However, if these core values are neglected, communication starts to breakdown, intimacy begins to dwindle and we’ll no longer feel understood […]

5 Ways to Harness the Power of Negative Emotion

Negative emotions tend to make us feel powerless, but the powerful effect of negativity can be quite useful. Negative emotions cloud our identities and restrict us from building fulfilling lives. The longer we allow negative emotions to linger, our thoughts turn destructive and we begin losing hope of ever feeling truly happy/happy again. Negative emotions are always […]

How to Cope With Isolation

You may notice that I tend to disappear for a while and I hope that the message in this post will help you understand why. I grew up feeling segregated because I didn’t feel connected to the world the same way my peers did. I remember my insecurities developing because of an eagerness to fit […]

Where do you find love?

Post by Vancouver Life Coach, Terry Sidhu. I recently came back from a trip that made me realise the unspoken struggles we face alone, beneath the surface of the identities we present. Having reconnected with loved ones after many years and establishing brand new connections, I came back from this trip more aware of the […]

Let’s talk about race.

Let’s talk about race. I’ve wanted to write about this topic for a long time now, because I’m tired of seeing so many people, myself included, being judged and defined by skin colour. It’s just a colour, it has no meaning and it’s unwise to define our lives by it. I was exposed to the same […]