Why Holding on to a Fantasy isn’t Necessarily a Bad Thing

My journey from living with insecurities to living with confidence and esteem has been long. It’s taken leaps and bounds overcoming challenges and threats to my identity but I made it through, partly because I held on to what once seemed like a fantasy. 7 years ago, if anyone had told me that I’d be […]

Escape your Comfort Zone

Over the last few (many) years I’ve gone from an uncomfortable person with low self-esteem to a confident being with self-belief. This had a lot to do with escaping my comfort zone and pushing the boundaries of my identity. For the longest time I thought that “the comfort zone” was a safe place. A place where […]

Dealing with Loss

Dealing with loss is not easy, although its impact is measured by its significance to your life and your identity. Whatever the circumstance it’s lonely and trying to reconnect with your identity and trying to move forward with your life is a challenge you never anticipate.When you lose a piece of your life that signifies a […]

How to Develop Superpowers

Your identity is the force that will guide you to the life you’ve always dreamed of. Something changed in my life when I ventured out on my own, I was forced to live life based on the very traits of my own identity and as a result, I learned much more about myself and what […]

Betrayed by Success

I’m fortunate and grateful to have met success throughout different parts of my life. From my achievements through to overcoming struggles, I can definitely say that I’ve ranked some wins over the last few years. However, I was reflecting on moments in my life when success felt more like a deception. A time when I […]